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Okay, isn’t this woman’s hair wonderful! I want my hair to look like this…I’ve got to work on finding a decent beautician in NYC. If anyone can offer up any advice of a great place to go with natural hair please leave the info in the comments. We are planning to go home for Thanksgiving maybe my mom can hook me up with this ‘do. There is so much more fab hair over at lecoil.
I’ve decided to play along with the My hot + not blog entries that are making the rounds. I heard about it on loobylu one of my favorite blogs. This fits right into my love of lists so here goes:
hot:
- celebrating 11 years of marriage with my husband.
- knowing that I have this and these coming in the mail
- feeling more confident about homeschooling
- ending my nights with lady grey tea instead of oreos
- the discovery of one of my new favorite websites: lecoil
not hot:
- the tendonitis in my elbow
- worrying about next years taxes already
- living the constant nagging question of should we stay or should we go
- looking at real estate in Yardley, PA and in Beacon, NY and getting depressed
- wanting to knit, comb my hair, carry the baby and not being able to (see bullet #1 for reason)
Filed under: friends + family
When we last met I looked like this (before my last entry that is), then…


April 25th 2009, Alice arrives…a day late but well worth the wait.


Our days were busy, we took lots of naps.

We made some things…
Got out of the city for awhile…
And Spring ran into summer. Summer has run into fall. I feel like I am forever chasing the days. Once we got our groove though our Spring and Summer was lovely. Here is a list of what we got done.
We went to the beach. Finley got over his fear of the ocean and heights. Played lots of soccer. Napped all together in one big bed. Worried about money and decided it was not worth worrying about. Traveled to Ohio. Made pies. Knit. Fell ever so head over heels in love with Alice. Installed the air conditioner for the one week of warm weather that called for it. Took a break from “homeschooling” and still kept learning. Finally started my homeschooling parenting journal and lost it. Rocked the baby. Read Richard Scarry’s The Great Pie Robbery a bizillion times. Celebrated 4 years with an incredible kid. Did some serious scooting around the neighborhood and beyond. Went to the Maryland State Fair. Kissed the baby. Ate deep-fried Oreos. Milked a cow (Fin not me). Rode bumper cars and a ferris wheel. Finley cared for some chickens at Muscoot Farms in Westchester. Lost our minds and found them again. Realized God truly is in the details. Well about brings us to now…
Filed under: Misc.
I feel like I need to re-introduce myself. It has been a long time after all, so much has gone on.
So here is who I am today:
I am the mother of two.
I am the mother of an energetic and spirited 4 year old.
I am several pounds lighter both mentally and physically.
I am recommitting myself to homeschooling after a very long and needed summer hiatus.
I am tired.
I am happy.
I am thrilled to be looking in the face of a beautiful little girl who, finds wonder in everything and smiles at anything.
I am knitting various things.
I am still in love.
I am still struggling with letting go.
I am wondering what is next.
I am so inspired.
I am missing the times we had at the beach this summer.
I am looking forward to fall and apples pie and foliage.
I am trying to organize our space.
I am wanting to make the time, to sew, to read, to have a date with my husband.
I am working on being funny again.
I am striving to be present and have joyful fun with my kids.
I am trying not to forget what they are like now, right now in the tiny collection of moments that make their days.
I am sifting through to separate what matters from what doesn’t
And this is just who I am today…who knows who I will be tomorrow. I will post photos of our summer soon.
Glad to be back!
Filed under: friends + family
This is the day the LORD has made;
let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Psalm 118
Filed under: teach
We are still here, just busy wrapping up some freelance projects and nesting like crazy. Fin is doing well with his homeschool project. There is a whole lot of dinosaur talk happening. What is nice is that the project has actually morphed into more of an animal project. It kind of starts with dinosaurs and then can transition to talking about reptiles, or dogs or turtles. We talk about how some animals are cold-blooded animals and others are warm blooded. That conversation can lead to another exchange about where and how animals live, what they eat, how they benefit society. While I feel like somehow we should be doing more, I can see how the learning it taking place. I want to get better at documenting the conversations we have and maybe capturing the ideas. Tobias has been working on reading with him but it is in a very loose way. It is exciting because recently, it is Finley who initiates the lessons. He will ask what something says and then, with a little pressing begin to sound out the words himself. I love seeing his curiosity.
In knocked up news. Nothing happening…33 weeks and counting. Tired but starting to have time to think about the fact that I am going to actually going to have to give birth. Again. Not that I am not excited but birth is still as little scary. We are going the birthing center route this time. I am excited about that but again, a little nervous.
I have had several adventures in bread baking. So far I have baked the famous No Knead Bread, a couple loafs of white bread, cinnamon rolls and french bread. The most successful of these was the No Knead Bread. Coming in second was the cinnamon rolls, the other breads just come out really dense. Maybe I am over kneading, Maybe my oven isn’t getting hot enough? The search for a good bread recipe continues. If anyone has a good recipe or some good bread baking tips please send them my way.
Filed under: teach
So, thus begins the observations of Fin for Homeschooling. He is three an a half so he interest are all over the place, but I noticed this week he asked me repeatedly about three things, Fire, Dinosaurs and Sheep. I know right? So random and so wonderful. Taking a cue from the Camp Creek blog, I decided that when he asked me a question about any of these things that I wouldn’t give him the answer instead I would say, that I didn’t know but that we could find out by going to the library and asking the librarian for books. The idea was that he was going to to do the asking and the interacting with the librarian, and pick the books out, I was there merely to set the wheels in motion. So we did it! And it was a lot of fun he was great with the librarian and picked out several, and I mean like 10 books on dinosaurs, one on sheep and a book on fire. We read parts of the books at the library and we’ve been concentrating on Dinosaurs at home.
He definitely learns when he is interacting, doing, touching, asking questions, being part of an action. He is not so interested in the lecture kind of learning. When I start to take a little more control of the teaching and not include him, I lose him almost immediately. He likes to answer questions, and is enthusiastic when he knows the answers. He is definitely into praise. The one thing I have noticed is he really has a difficult time sitting still. I thought I would buy some fancy lined “school” paper and have him practice writing. I neatly wrote the word Dinosaur on the top of the page, the idea being that he would copy the letters on the lines below. Yea, no. It was just too high an expectation for him. He wanted to write the letters but only the ones he wanted to write (skipping the “S” because he thought it was too difficult), the lines on the paper were of zero importance to him, and getting the letters in the same sequence wasn’t real high on his list of priorities either. It ended up being more of a lesson for me than it was for him. Interesting enough, the very next day we made Valentine’ Day cards and part of that activity was that he had to write the word “love” on all the hearts himself. It was essential the same exercise but the context was slightly different. This he did happily. So again another lesson learned.
He loves to be read to and seems to have a pretty high attention span. For awhile we were experimenting with long books. We’ve read The Little Prince, Stuart Little (but haven’t finished it), and we have started the Freddy the Pig series. He liked the first one, slow going on the second. He seems to be happy to listen as long as you will read. He asks questions about the characters and about words he doesn’t understand. This out of all the learn/teaching we do seems to be the most effective. He is still, concentrating, and inquisitive. So this is what I have gleaned from my recent observations. We will see what this week has in store.
So I have taken some serious time off from researching and developing a routine for homeschooling. With all that has gone on and is going on and will go on, I just couldn’t find the energy to think about it. But I am back on track now. I started as I usually do researching teaching methods, going to Amazon.com and loading up my wish list with books on different teaching methods and curriculum. Hyperventilating. Then I came across this brilliant post on the Camp Creek site:
http://www.whiteoakschool.com/camp-creek-blog/2009/2/11/the-perfect-homeschool-curriculum.html
It was one of those instances when you find exactly what you need, exactly when you need it. So for the next couple of weeks I am going to observe Fin to see how and what he is interested in learning. Here is how they suggest finding that out:
“If you instead quietly document how they play, what they talk about, what draws their interest again and again, you may come up with something entirely different, something more authentic (based on how they actually interact with the world, and not what seemed interesting in that moment you asked).
In the same way, before we go out to pull a homeschool curriculum off the shelf, we should spend some quiet time documenting our own thoughts, feelings, values, and goals — the things we already know to be true.”
So that is where we will start, what’s funny is that I never would have thought to do it this way. I was ready to just try out some methods, some curriculum and see how he reacted. This way seems so much more organic. I am excited to see what I find. Through what limited research I have done, and it seems silly to mention it now that I am going to go down this other road but I will anyway. I really am drawn to the Reggio method and the Charlotte Mason method but that is me. I am going to take a step back, take a deep breath and see where Finley’s interest lie. I will hopefully be documenting what I find here as we start this very exciting process.

We’ve been busy! This is just a little peek at what we’ve been up to these days. We are trying our best to force a little spring. If it won’t happen outside maybe we can get some inside with some paperwhites. I started and finished the purl rabbit with the intention of it going to the new baby, but when Finley woke up he said “Mama did you finish my rabbit?” So yeah, what do you say? I will just have to make two. I am currently working on a blue sweater for our rabbit friend, next will be a pair of denim pants. While I was working on the rabbit Fin decided he wanted to pick up his embroidery as well, so he did a little needlwork. Finally, I celebrated my birthday at the end of January and was surprised by this beautful cake made especially for me by my boys. Can you believe it! That is one beautiful cake, and yes those are jelly beans, thank you very much.
P.S. The paintings in the middle of the paperwhite bulbs are done by resident artist Finley Funk. They were birthday gifts for Tobias
Filed under: Parenting

The other day we made a big batch of playdough. Finley loves it. The blue isn’t in the picture as Finley couldn’t bring himself to part with it. We’ve been making alot of playdough snakes, we’ve expanded a little– to playdough sheep but the snakes are a very popular request. The snakes must have eyes, a nose, a tongue, and happy faces. There also has at least 1 or 2 baby snakes made to keep the other snake happy. Here is the link to the wonderful and creative blog While She Naps for the playdough recipe.
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Fin needs a scarf but I hate the way they bulk around his neck and then you can’t zip the coat up. I really think he need me to make him one of these adorable neckies. Imagine how cute and french he would look in one, maybe I would make myself one too.
They are by Oeuf and they are $45 bucks. I could buy one but 1) I am cheap. 2.) I think it would be a fun quick knit. I just have to figure how to do it…